JV's Blog

There were a lot of single women on Valentine's day who felt left out and probably inadequate because they didn't have a man, but then there were a lot of women, like myself, who felt the opposite. We spent the so called most romantic day of the year, thanking our lucky stars we were free from the darkside of the masculine ego.  For many women relationships with men are fraught with deep unhappiness, either because of physical or emotional abuse,  Life for a single woman is filled with opportunities. Opportunities that are simply not possible when you are tied to a partner, especially one who thinks their needs should be prioritised over yours.  Day to day living is full of compromise, in the workplace, at social gatherings, driving, most situations where you interact with people but what it should not be is in your home. Your home as the English say, is your castle; your sanctuary but when you live with someone who turns your sanctuary into a prison, then life can seem like it